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Stop Partnering With Smallness

  • Writer: Lea
    Lea
  • 22 minutes ago
  • 4 min read

Respectfully… it’s time to cut it out.

God did not call you to live small.

Not small in faith.Not small in obedience.Not small in the way you steward your life, your gifts, or your calling.

He called you to walk in a kind of greatness that reflects His glory—not your ego, not your ambition, but the fullness of what happens when a life is yielded and willing.

And yet, many of us find ourselves standing exactly where the Israelites once stood: right at the edge of the Promised Land.

Close enough to see it.Close enough to sense what could be.But frozen by fear.

“There are giants in the land.”

That was the report.

Not a lie—but not the truth either.

The land was good. God had already said so.The promise was sure. God had already spoken it.

But the people chose to focus on their lack, their fear, and their perceived limitations instead of the faithfulness of the One who brought them there in the first place.

Sound familiar?


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When Fear Sounds Like Wisdom

Stepping into new territory often feels overwhelming—not because God isn’t present, but because fear is loud.

Fear whispers:

  • Who do you think you are?

  • What if you fail?

  • What if you’re not enough?

And slowly, almost imperceptibly, we begin to shrink.

We pull back.We delay obedience.We start partnering with smallness—not because we want to, but because it feels safer than faith.

But safety has never been the goal.


Caleb Stood on Something the Others Chose to Forget

When the voices of doubt grew louder, Caleb did something bold.

“Then Caleb silenced the people before Moses and said,‘We should go up and take possession of the land, for we can certainly do it.’”— Numbers 13:30

Caleb didn’t deny the giants. He simply refused to elevate them above God's promise.

And when doubt continued to spread, Joshua and Caleb declared:

“The land we passed through and explored is exceedingly good.If the Lord is pleased with us, He will lead us into that land…Do not rebel against the Lord. And do not be afraid of the people of the land…Their protection is gone, but the Lord is with us. Do not be afraid of them.”— Numbers 14:6–9

Standing on the promises of God is not arrogance. That is confidence anchored in God.


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Meekness Is Not Smallness

Somewhere along the way, humility got twisted into timidity.

But Scripture never equates meekness with shrinking back.Meekness is strength under submission.Confidence that knows its source.

We are called to walk in humility, yes—but also in faith. Not fear. Not insecurity. Not a mindset of lack.

We are not meant to live apologetically for taking up the space God assigned us.

It is not pride to believe what He has spoken.It is disobedience to continually doubt it.


Where Does the Voice of Smallness Come From?

Before we can silence the voice of smallness, we have to be honest about where it began.

Most limiting beliefs didn’t appear out of nowhere.They were learned. Absorbed. Repeated.


Sometimes they come from:

  • A season where you tried and failed

  • Words spoken over you by authority figures

  • A family culture that prized safety over obedience

  • A church environment that confused humility with invisibility

  • A moment when disappointment taught you to expect less


You can be called and still hesitant. Invited forward and still looking back.


Identifying the Beliefs You’ve Been Partnering With

Smallness often disguises itself as logic.

It sounds reasonable. Responsible. Wise.

But when you slow down and listen closely, it usually traces back to a belief that says:

  • I’m not capable.

  • I don’t want to be seen.

  • It’s safer not to hope.

  • Other people are more qualified than me.

  • God might do this for others, but not for me.

These beliefs feel personal, but they are not prophetic.They are not promises.And they are not from God.

They are learned conclusions—and conclusions can be unlearned.


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Journaling: Exposing the Root

Set aside a quiet moment. Don’t rush this. Let honesty lead.

You may want to write without editing yourself.


Journaling Prompts:

  • Where in my life do I consistently shrink back or hesitate?

  • What thoughts rise up when I consider stepping into something new?

  • When did I first learn to think this way about myself?

  • Who or what reinforced this belief over time?

  • Does this belief align with what God has spoken in Scripture?

  • What would obedience look like if fear wasn’t making the decisions?

  • What promise from God directly challenges this belief?

As you write, pay attention to patterns.

Often the same belief shows up in multiple areas—calling, creativity, leadership, relationships.

That’s a sign it’s not situational.It’s foundational.


Replacing Smallness With Truth

God does not ask us to deny reality.He asks us to trust Him more than it.

The giants were real.But God was greater.

Replacing limiting beliefs doesn’t happen through hype or forced declarations. It happens through alignment—choosing to agree with God even when your feelings lag behind.

Truth is not something you hype yourself into.It’s something you stand on.

And as you do, smallness loses its voice.


Your Promised Land Is Still Waiting

The seed has already been planted.

The question is not whether God is faithful.The question is whether you will believe Him enough to move.

So let this be the moment you stop partnering with smallness.Not with performance.Not with pressure.But with steady obedience and rooted faith.

Step into your calling.Reflect His glory.Start speaking and believing what He has already declared over you.

Your Promised Land is waiting.

And it’s time to let the seed sprout. 🌱


Love, Lea

 
 
 

2 Comments


Georgina Mcdonald
Georgina Mcdonald
5 minutes ago

I really appreciated this article (and the last one!). I found the language of identifying the beliefs you "partner" a helpful way to think...and how often we partner with beliefs that are contrary to the God we love and his plans for us. Thanks for taking the time to write this!

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Lea
Lea
4 minutes ago
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It's like coming into an agreement with something ... to partner with it or to yoke yourself to it.

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